Book Reviews

Parenting a Middle Schooler: Book Review

Have a middle schooler? Going to have one someday? I taught middle school for seven years before moving to the high school and I can remember having multiple parent conferences where the parents stated, ” we just don’t know what to do with him/her!”

These were not bad parents and they weren’t parenting bad kids. Middle school is tough–for the kids and for the parents (and the teachers–haha). Our church did a study of the book Middle School: The Inside Story last year. We did not attend the classes, but I did get a copy of the book.


This is a Focus on the Family book and while it encourages conservative values, I didn’t find it to be “preachy.” The book is broken up into four parts:

  1. Part One: Changes–this section of the book discusses both physical changes and changes in perspective.
  2. Part Two: Parenting–focuses on what your child actually needs from you at this age, communication, and discipline.
  3. Part Three: Friends and Other Problems–this part talks about fitting in, relationships with the opposite sex, and any red flags you may encounter.
  4. Part Four: School–shares information about learning styles and many other school/homework/teacher issues.

Each chapter includes quotes from middle school students, parents, and teachers as well as sections titled “Here’s a Thought” that contain specific parenting tips.

My husband and I are parenting a middle schooler and a preteen right now and this book has been so helpful! We have both worked successfully with kids for many years, but we definitely can use help with figuring things out in our own family!

My favorite chapter discusses communicating with your middle schoolers. I tend to raise my voice or use sarcasm when my kids push my buttons, but the authors of this book suggest many ways to stay “adult” and not engage in this behavior.

The book can be purchased here (affiliate link).

I hope you find this book helpful.  Any middle school parenting tips you would like to share?


Oklahoma Travel: Pioneer Woman Mercantile

In my opinion, it is rare to find a jewel such as Ree Drummond. She is humble, kind, a loving mother, and a genius in the kitchen. I’ve watched her show for years and read all of her books.  At my house, we reference the cookbooks many times throughout the year when we are trying to find something tasty to make–my husband loves the Marlboro Man sandwich.

Since opening her store/restaurant/coffee shop, my mom and I have dreamed about making a visit. We decided that Spring Break would be a perfect time, so we made plans and added a few to our party. My mom, daughter, sister-in-law, her mom, and my niece hopped in our cars and headed that direction. It was close to a four-hour drive so our plans were to get into Pawhuska, where the Mercantile is located, and just shop around there.


We arrived after lunch, looked around the shop for awhile, and then went upstairs to peruse the bakery and coffee shop. When we got up there, we ran in to Ladd, Ree’s husband! He was so gracious and kind and took pictures with everyone who asked. When a child in line started crying, he went behind the counter and got the child a cookie. So sweet! When we got up to the counter, it was really hard to make our decision as to what to try. I got an iced Spicy Cowgirl coffee and a cinnamon roll to share–they are huge! Both items were delicious.


Our attempt at a selfie.  Haha!


At this point, everybody was pretty tired and my niece needed a nap, so we left the Merc and drove about 30 minutes to our hotel in Bartlesville.  There are not many places to stay in Pawhuska, so we chose Bartlesville because it was the next closest town.  I used Priceline (my fave) to book our rooms.  We relaxed for a short while and then went to a local Mexican restaurant, El Maguey, for dinner.  It was great fun having some girl-of-all-ages bonding time.  After eating, we were all pretty tired so we went back to the hotel to get some rest before our early start in the morning.

Our plan was to be at the Merc by 7 AM for breakfast.  We arrived a few minutes later than that and there was a line already!  Luckily, the staff at the Mercantile was prepared for the large Spring Break crowds.  A nice gentleman brought out several propane tank heaters and a lovely woman came out to entertain us with stories about the history of Pawhuska and the Drummond Ranch.  We didn’t wait very long, but rumor has it that not long after we moved inside, workers took hot cocoa outside to the people waiting to eat.


Once inside, the smell was overwhelmingly good and we couldn’t wait to order!  You can find the current menu here to see why we were so excited to eat.  My daughter and I shared the Farmer’s Breakfast and a biscuit with gravy.  I got another Spicy Cowgirl coffee.  The food was amazing, but I secretly wanted my sister-in-law’s pancakes–they came with three different types of syrup, one being Salted Caramel, my favorite! Don’t worry–she shared.

We shopped a little more after breakfast and then decided to head to the Lodge.  The Lodge is where Ree and her family film her Food Network show.  It is only open for viewing on certain dates (check here) and you have to ask for a “ticket” (directions) at the shop at the Mercantile.

This was something we didn’t really expect to do.  We were all tired and I wasn’t sure our whole party would want to make the drive out to the Lodge, but…it was my absolute favorite part!  The Lodge is absolutely beautiful!  It is nestled right past a little hill, overlooking some homes (not hers–I asked!  Haha) and farmland.  The property is enormous.  I had no idea how big the kitchen would be in real life, but it’s huge.  There are four beautiful bedrooms/bathrooms, a commercial kitchen, and many cool hang-out spaces.  They let us walk around the entire place–we even got to see where Ree does her hair/makeup when filming.  There was a lovely young lady at the Lodge who filled us in on all kinds of fun facts about the Drummond family and the property.





We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves and are planning on making a trip back with all of my aunts. I can’t wait for them to try the food and see all of the cool things Ree offers in her store.  Our goal is to do a little more exploring in Pawhuska and Bartlesville and make it to the Merc for lunch or dinner.  Hopefully, we’ll get to take them to the Lodge as well.

This would definitely make a great day (or two) trip if you live in Oklahoma or just happen to be visiting.  For more information or to shop her products, you can access the Mercantile webpage here.


Florida 2017: Part Two

To read about days 1-6 of our trip go to part one of this post.

To recap…we drove for three long days and spent four fun nights at Disney. My husband was sick the entire time we were in Orlando, so we were more than ready to get to the beach! We always tack on a beach trip after our time at Disney and have visited many places, including Cocoa Beach, Panama City, Destin, and Indian Pass.  This was our first time staying in Pensacola…


Day Seven: Heading to the Beach

We woke up fairly early, packed our cars, and headed out of Orlando.  My husband felt well enough to drive until lunch, when we stopped at Zaxby’s (we must love that place).  After eating, his dad took over to do the rest of the driving.  We arrived at our condo around 3, got everything unpacked, and made ourselves at home.  We stayed here and it was gorgeous! My in-laws booked us a 4-bedroom, 4-bath condo overlooking the pool and the beach.  Pictures can be deceiving, but this place was even better in person!


After we hung out for awhile, we headed to Perdido Key for dinner.  My husband’s cousin and his wife just happened to be on vacation in the area at the same time as us, so we met up with them.  We ate right on the water at the Perdido Key Oyster Bar.  The food was delicious (I had the Jerk Mahi) and the atmosphere was great.  We hit WalMart for some groceries and then went to bed, eager to lay on the sand the next day.

Day Eight: Rough Waters

The red flags were flying on our first beach day.  I was really nervous about letting our kids get in the water so I continuously reminded them not to go out very far.  It was pretty hard for me to relax and I encouraged lots of playing in the sand.



My husband actually felt pretty good this day and we were hopeful that he was kicking whatever was ailing him. We went in for a bit at lunch and then spent the rest of the day at the pool.  The guys made good use of the grill that night and we feasted on steaks, salad, and baked potatoes.  Once it was dark, the men and the kids all went crab hunting.  Apparently, it was hilarious watching the kids run around and grab little crabs.  From the room, we could see tons of people and their flashlights all over the beach.  Haha.


Day Nine: Going Backward and…Awkward Family Photos

My husband got up first and made everyone eggs, sausage, and coffee.  We all ate and headed back to the beach.  After about an hour or two, my hubs threw in the towel.  He felt awful and went back up to the condo.  The kids and I stayed on the sand for most of the day before going back to the pool in the late afternoon.


My sister-in-law booked us a photographer to take family photos so we all got cleaned up and ready.  I was hoping my husband would feel better after resting most of the day, but he couldn’t even get out of bed.  This is very uncharacteristic of him.  He hardly ever gets sick and when he does, he powers through and tries to carry on as normally as possible.  I was really worried and did not want to take family pictures without him.  The kids and I made it down to the sand, with the plan of just getting a few photos of them.  I ended up taking one picture with the kids and then an individual with each.  It was pretty awkward to do family pics without the whole family, but the photographer was awesome.  He put us all at ease and his work is beautiful.  If you are ever in that area and need photos, check out Jason G Creative Studios!

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When we returned from taking photos, my father-in-law and I decided to take my husband to the emergency room.  He had been running fever for a few days and we couldn’t get it down.  They ran many tests, gave him some fluids, and more antibiotics. After a long night, we got back to our room and crashed.

Day Ten: Our Last Day of Vacay

We all (minus my husband) spent our last day at Pensacola Beach enjoying the water and sunshine.  The ocean was super clear and calm so the kids were able to find lots of seashells and they caught a few small fish in buckets.  I went on a solo walk in the morning and saw a shark swimming really close to shore! I have no idea what kind (maybe a nurse shark?) it was, but a man on the beach said it was just searching for food and wasn’t aggressive.  I took his word for it.  Haha.


Smallest seashells ever?!


My father-in-law rented a kayak for the day and we all took turns paddling around the clear areas close to the resort beach.  I saw absolutely NOTHING on my turn, but my kids got to see fish, dolphins, and more sharks (the dolphin viewing was amazing in Pensacola).


No, we did NOT let them go alone!

We took a short dip in the pool before getting cleaned up for dinner.  The rest of the family made plans to go out, but I didn’t want to leave my husband by himself for very long.  My kids and I went to a local souvenir shop and grabbed a pizza to eat back at the condo.  I gathered almost all of our stuff and when the others got back, we got the car packed up for the next day’s drive.


Day Eleven: The Longest Day Ever

My family of 5 was on the road, headed for home, by 6 in the morning.  Everybody else was flying so we were on our own and…I was driving.  We take our time getting to Florida, but we make the drive back in one day.  By this time, we are tired of eating out and tired of sleeping in hotels.  All we wanted was to sleep in our own beds!  It took us around 16 hours to get back to Oklahoma and I drove the whole way.  Luckily, my husband felt good enough to navigate so I had some help.  My kids were really good so that was a blessing!  People think we are crazy to drive that much in one day, but it honestly wasn’t that bad.  We are so happy to be home!


Overall, we had a good trip and loved Orlando and Pensacola Beach.  We absolutely know how blessed we are to be able to take trips as a family.  Many people do not have the opportunity to travel and we are very grateful that we get to.  My kids had a great time and that was our main priority. My husband and I keep joking that we need to plan another trip this summer because he didn’t really get one.  Our anniversary is next week, so we shall see….



Disney · Travel

Florida 2017: Part One

Hello, friends!  I took a short break from the blog while on a 10-day vacation to Florida.  If you have read my previous posts, you know that our family goes to Florida every other summer to enjoy Disney World and one of the many beautiful beaches offered there.  My in-laws are members of Disney Vacation Club and it has blessed us many times over the past twenty years!

Two of my kids and I returned home from church camp on a Friday and left the very next morning for our vacation.  It was a fast and furious time of laundry and packing, but we were able to fit in a dinner visit with my family before we headed out the next morning.

Day One: On the Road


We like to split the drive up on the way so we can enjoy the sights and eat at new-to-us places.  Our journey started around 8 AM and we headed to Waco for our first stop.  The kids amused themselves with coloring, drawing, card-playing, and time on their devices.  We stopped at a local favorite, George’s, and shared a few different things.  The atmosphere was fun and the food was delicious.  If you are ever in Waco, you need to try this restaurant!


After lunch, we continued our drive and made it to Houston for dinner.  Pappasito’s Cantina was on our mind (I had never been) as we were craving good Mexican food.  Again, we shared a couple of dishes and some queso (of course!).  We left pretty stuffed, but saved room for dessert.  One of our friends offered up his apartment for us that evening (he was out of town) and he left us a fresh-baked cobbler and ice cream–not kidding.  Everybody was pretty tired, so we hit the sack after dessert, with plans to head out the next morning by 6.


Day Two: Road Warriors

The next morning, we were up by 5 and out of the apartment before 6.  We stopped at a Buc-ee’s for some breakfast items and had our sights set on lunch in New Orleans.  We made it right on time and, based on a recommendation from some friends, went to Deanie’s Seafood.  We tried many of the favorites, including some gumbo and crawfish etouffee’.  One of my bucket list items was eating beignets in NOLA so we had to make that happen!  We went to Cafe Beignet and had our warm, sugary treats at an outside table.


Our time in New Orleans was short, but we enjoyed walking around and people-watching.  I can’t imagine how crazy it is during Mardi Gras!  Then…back in the car.

This was our “long” day of travel (about 9 hours on the road) and our final destination was Crestview, Florida.  We used Priceline to book a hotel on the way.  The place we stayed was just average, but had an outdoor pool so the kids were pleased.  I did pool duty while my husband went to get us some Zaxby’s salads and chicken.  The kids swam for a bit and then we ate and went to bed early.

Day Three: Finally in Orlando!

Our third and final day of driving was pretty easy.  After visiting the hotel breakfast bar, we hit the road a bit after 6 and made it to Orlando around 1.  Our first stop?  Wal-Mart.  Haha!  The Wal-Mart that is closest to Disney has an amazing selection of souvenirs and our kids had money burning holes in their pockets.  Each of the kids picked up a Mickey tee and I bought a few items to bring home for family.  We actually didn’t get any groceries because the rest of our party already food-shopped for us earlier that day (they arrived by plane three days before we got there).

Our room wasn’t ready when we arrived at Old Key West resort, so my husband took the kids to the pool and I hung out with my sister-in-law in their room while we waited.  We were able to move in to our room after 5:00.  Some family members had planned a burger cookout at the pool so we joined them.  The kids burned off three days worth of energy by swimming and playing at the playground next to the pool and then we went to bed to prepare for Magic Kingdom!

Day Four: A “Magic”al Day

This day actually did not start out magically.  My husband woke me up around 5 to tell me he felt awful.  He took some Aleve and tried to shake it.  We made it to the Disney bus stop around 8 and headed to Magic Kingdom.  Ropes dropped at 9 and we practically ran to the Seven Dwarfs Mine Train.  There was a wait, but we stuck it out and the kids loved it.  We spent the morning hitting most of our favorites (Haunted Mansion, Big Thunder Mountain, Pirates), had lunch at Columbia Harbour House, got an ice cream bar or two, and went back for some pool time.


My husband still did not feel well, so he laid down while the kids and I spent a couple of hours swimming and snacking.  We had FastPass reservations that evening so we were back on the bus by 6.  After doing several rides and watching fireworks, we shut down the park at 11 and reflected on what a successful Disney day we had.  Oh..and don’t worry…I got the Dole Whip Float I’ve been dreaming about for the past two years.  Ha!


Day Five: Not in our plans

We were SUPPOSED to hit Universal Studios, but decided to go the following day to give my husband more rest time.  My mother-in-law offered to keep the kids at the pool and my hubs and I went to an urgent care center, hoping for something to help him feel better.  He got some medicine, we spent the rest of the day at the pool, and ended up at House of Blues at the Disney Springs area for dinner.

If you haven’t been to the new Disney Springs, you need to make plans to visit.  The area is beautiful, with tons of restaurant and shopping options.  After we ate, we walked around for awhile and found a few more souvenirs.


Day Six: It was “WAND”erful

My husband still wasn’t feeling better, but one of our main goals for this trip was Diagon Alley at the Wizarding World of Harry Potter, so the kids and I drove over to Universal for the day.  I don’t want to say a whole lot about the park because I think it deserves its own post, but we really enjoyed it.

After reading all of the Harry Potter books this year, my daughter was pumped to check out Diagon Alley and get a wand at Ollivander’s.  Luckily, she was chosen for the wand ceremony, which made the day extra special for her.


We met the rest of the family for lunch at Margaritaville and then went back for more park fun.  I knew we were in for a night of packing when we returned, so we finished at Universal in the early evening and went back to our Disney resort.  Pizza at the pool was the plan (unintentional alliteration).  We enjoyed that and packed up our room in preparation for our drive to the beach!

To be continued…


6 Tips to Help Make Camp a Success for your Kids

Every summer, thousands of parents pack up their kids and send them off to a week (or more) of a camp of some sort.  I did not attend camp as a kid and was always intrigued by the idea of it.  I loved to read books about summer camps and Heavyweights is still one of my favorite movies.

When I was in college, I spent part of two summers as a counselor at a large summer sports camp in Texas.  I absolutely loved the adventure of spending time with youth, teaching them a sport (I taught cheer, dance, gymnastics, and snorkeling), and engaging in various types of competition.  After having kids, I longed to give them a camp experience and my husband and I decided that church camp was the right way for us to offer that to them.  For the past four summers, I have spent a week counseling at a camp here in Oklahoma.  Looking back on our first year at camp, there are so many things I wish I knew.  So…I thought I’d share a few tips to help if you are sending your kid(s) off to camp this summer.

1. Find the right camp experience for your children.

There are so many camp options that it can be overwhelming trying to decide which place is right for your kids.  There are locations that focus on the arts, athletics, academics, or religion.   Many camps offer a blended experience and you will want to do your research to find the best fit for your family.  There are directories online that are extremely helpful (a nice one can be found here), but you can also get information from local churches, sports teams, and, obviously, your friends.

2. If at all possible, take them to the location yourself.

Many campers arrive in large groups with a youth minister or parent of one of their friends.  This may be convenient, but if you have a first-time camper, you may want to try to take them to camp yourself.  Meet the people they will be with all week, walk the grounds with them, help them make their beds, and communicate any pertinent information to the adults in charge.  You will feel more comfortable and so will your child, which will be a positive start to the session or week.

3. Give appropriate medical information and send medical items.

This sounds like common sense, but it isn’t.  Camp staff needs to know from a parent if a child has any allergies/conditions or if medication is taken on a daily basis.  Most camps require some sort of medical form to be signed, but you would be surprised at the amount of people who sign the forms, but don’t actually communicate the appropriate information.

4. Pack the right stuff.

There are many camp packing lists online (check Pinterest), but oftentimes, each location will have it’s own list for you to look over when packing.  Here are a few things I think are necessary to have at camp:

  • items for theme nights (many camps do this and the kids love to dress up/accessorize)
  • Bible/sports equipment/etc–whatever is specific to your chosen camp
  • a watch–it’s hard to be on time to different classes/activities if you don’t know what time it is
  • a water bottle
  • a pillow–this was the item most forgotten in my cabin this year!
  • a flat sheet–even if your child is using a sleeping bag, they need a flat sheet for their mattress.  Do you know how many kids have slept on those?!
  • a few items for cabin quiet time (NOT electronics)–playing cards, books, journals and pens, etc

5. Send mail.

If your camper is going to be somewhere for a week or more, send them some mail.  I know a week really isn’t very long, but the kids are always touched when they receive a letter or card from parents, grandparents, or siblings.  They get really excited if their mail includes some candy or snacks for the cabin to share.  Some camps even offer care packages for you to order.  Make sure to check information for your specific location to see what is/isn’t acceptable to send.  Even though I go to camp with my kids, they love getting mail.  My mother-in-law always sends some gum with her notes, which makes the kids pretty happy.

6. Try to make them stay for the entire camp session.

This is a tough one.  I can’t imagine getting a phone call from my child begging to come home from camp.  It is normal for kids to have some homesickness, especially at night, but the benefits of camp usually outweigh the sadness a camper may feel when they are away from home.  At camp, my kids have strengthened their faith, learned lots of new games, and made close friends with people from all over the state.  They love camp and are always really sad to leave.  Camps offer so many unique experiences for kids and allow them a feeling of pride when they finish the week, something they have probably been looking forward to all year.  However, if at any time you feel your child is more than just homesick, you need to do what makes you feel comfortable.  If that means leaving early, then so be it.  Your child’s health and well-being are much more important than the money you spent or others’ opinions.

Attending a summer camp can be a fun and rewarding experience for your precious kids.  Hopefully, these tips will help you if you are planning on sending your littles in the future!




9 Things I’m Loving this Month

I know that it is early June, but there are several things that I’ve found/seen/purchased this month that I just love.  I linked the things I could find online (note: only the Amazon one is an affiliate link).  Here are my favorites so far…

This top from WalMart.  It is on sale for $11.50 online right now.  I have wanted an off-the-shoulder top for a long time and have never found one I’ve loved.  This one is perfect.  The chambray goes with so many things and the length of this is great (just past the bottom).

This hat.  Also, from WalMart.  I’m not much of a hat person, but this was $3.44 and I’m going to get it personalized.  I love a good bargain!  Check your local stores to see if you can find it.  I’m planning on gifting some personalized ones to family members on vacation.


This crossbody wallet, found at Charming Charlie’s.  It was only $18 and will be perfect for vacation and quick trips to run errands this summer.  It is just big enough to hold my phone (with case on) and a few other small items.


This water bottle, available at WalMart.  I don’t hardly ever shop at WM, but apparently I found lots there this month.  Haha!  I love this bottle because it keeps drinks hot or cold for hours and has a lid.  I’ll be taking this to church camp and on vacation.  It comes in a variety of colors and runs for $9.74.


This online workout.   It’s the best way to get in a good, legitimate workout in your own home.  I find it very cost-effective ($39 for 3 months) and love the variety of the videos.  Yoga is my current favorite.  It also includes the Beachbody meal plans and fitness trackers.

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This easy lunch.  Make-your-own salad is a favorite of the kids and mine. Stick some toppings in different bowls and let them have at it.  I usually serve with homemade Whole30 Dump Ranch. Healthy and delicious.


This box subscription.  Birchbox is the best and I always look forward to getting the mail when I know a new box is coming.  It is only $10 a month and allows me to try lots of pricey brands of makeup, haircare, and skincare.  This month, I got a great mascara from Benefit and a matte lipcolor that is great for summer, among other things.

This swimsuit from Amazon.  Bathing suit shopping is the worst.  I think I tried on pretty much every modest swimsuit in town and came up short.  I decided to just order a couple from Amazon, knowing I could return them if they didn’t fit.  This suit is a winner!  I bought it in blue/black for around $22.  It covers everything and is extremely cute in person.  Make sure to pay attention to the size charts if you purchase.

This ice cream.  My local grocery store just started carrying this and the Sea Salt Caramel flavor is dreamy.  It’s pricey (around $5 a pint), but I’m the only one who eats it so it’s not such a big deal to purchase once or twice a month.

What have you been loving this month?  Anything I need to try?

Disney · Travel

5 things to consider when planning a Disney trip.


Every other summer, our family makes the 20+ hour drive to Orlando to visit Disney World (for road trip ideas, click here).  My husband’s parents have been members of Disney Vacation Club since 1995 and we have been blessed to visit many times over the years.

I am in no way affiliated with Disney nor am I a travel agent, but, after having the opportunity to go so often, I feel like I have a good grasp on realistic ways to have a great time at Disney without spending my retirement money.  Whether you are a Disney rookie or someone who has been in the past, there are tips below which can help when planning your vacation.  We head out in a few weeks and I’ll do a follow-up when we return with anything new we’ve learned.

Also, I apologize in advance for the length of this post.  There is so much to say about planning a Disney trip and I wanted to include everything I thought would be useful to someone.

1.Staying on Disney property

Being DVC members, we always stay on-property.  We have the opportunity to try new places, but we always stay at Old Key West, which is our “home” property.  There are many room options (studio, 1, 2, and 3-bedroom villas) and they are all very spacious. All except the studio include a washer/dryer and kitchen.  The rooms are very clean and are all pretty close to a pool (there are multiple pools at Old Key West).

The Disney pools are all pretty amazing, with most offering some sort of a feature (slide, spray area, etc) and daily activities.  At Old Key West, there are also “neighborhood” pools that are much quieter and allow my kids lots of space to swim without there being much of a crowd.  We always spend our first day (after the 3:00 check-in) at the pool.  This gives us a chance to release some energy from the car ride and to gear-up for parks the next day.

Rumor has it that DVC members can also pool-hop at many of the resort pools.  We have only done this one time as we pretty much love our home pool, but that is a fun extra for vacation club members.


Also, if you stay on property, you get free transportation to and from the parks and other resorts/attractions.  If you are not staying at a Disney resort, parking is $20+ each day at the parks.

Waiting for the bus
Headed to Magic Kingdom

If staying on-property, you also get complimentary Magic Bands.


I’ll be perfectly honest.  This whole band thing overwhelmed me before we left for our last trip.  It seemed confusing and more planning than I was willing to do.  I was wrong.  The bands are great.  You can link your tickets, FastPass, and photos to the bands.  They also serve as your room key and you can charge things at the Disney restaurants and shops using them.  It is such an easy way to keep everything together.  You control the band through the website and through the My Disney Experience app (more info below).

Disney resorts can be pricey, but the benefits are pretty great.  Other amenities include free wifi, Extra Magic Hours, early access to FastPass planning,  and the opportunity to purchase the Disney Dining Plan.

2. Navigating the Parks

Because we are able to visit Disney so often, we focus on one or two parks a year.  On our last trip, we spent one whole day at Magic Kingdom and hopped between Hollywood Studios and Animal Kingdom on our second park day.  We enjoy all of the parks (including both water parks), but our favorite is Magic Kingdom and we always plan to spend at least one day in this massive park.

We love to relax on vacation and sleeping in is great, but don’t do it on a park day.  You need to be there when the park opens or you will miss so many opportunities to ride things with not much wait time.  Last time, some family friends came on the trip with us and they didn’t make it to the park until after 10 AM.  I later asked what they rode and they were only able to hit like 5 things before evening.  What?!  We rode 5 things in the first hour we were there.  Get there early and be flexible with your plans.

Many people go with a ride/show itinerary (there are tons available online) and they are afraid to veer from it.  I do think it is smart to go in with some idea of where you want to be at specific times, but if your goal is to get the biggest bang for your buck, you need to be willing to chill a little.  We always start at Fantasyland because we have kids and they love it there.  This year, we plan on doing the Seven Dwarves Mine Train first because that tends to get crowded and have really long wait times and then, honestly, we’ll go to whatever is close and has a short wait–which is where the app comes in handy.


The My Disney Experience app is, in my opinion, the best thing to use to have a successful trip.  You can manage your Fast Pass (add, delete, change) and dining reservations, see show times, find which characters are out and where they are located, and see wait times for everything in the park.  After each ride, I get my phone out and look at the rides in that specific area and we just head to whichever ride/show is close to us with the shortest wait.  In June 2015, we went to Magic Kingdom on one of the busiest days of the month and our longest wait was maybe 30 minutes.  If we want to stay in a certain “land,” but have a FastPass somewhere else, I check to see if we can change times for that ride.  That doesn’t always work out for us, but it usually does.  I’m keeping my fingers crossed for this trip!

Even though we don’t love waiting in lines, I do make sure each of our kids gets to ride their #1 pick for each park before we leave.  It takes lots of money and planning time to do a Disney trip, so I want my kids to get to visit their favorite thing at least once.  One time we rode Splash Mountain…five times in a row…and I was pregnant.  It was interesting to say the least, but my daughter was happy as that was her favorite. Haha!

3. Eating at the Parks

I’m definitely not a Disney dining expert, but we do eat at the parks.  We have never done the dining plan, but I know many people do and enjoy it.  Normally, we eat a quick breakfast in our room (cereal, breakfast bar, fruit) before heading to the bus stop.  I also usually pack a few small snacks in our cinch sac or small backpack that we take to the parks (granola bars, pbj sandwiches cut up) for the time in between breakfast and lunch. For lunch, we hit up a counter-service restaurant for some good Disney food.  They all offer different things and can be pricey (maybe $10 or $12) so we share two or three meals and call it good.

In the afternoon, we usually take a park break and head back to hang out at our resort pool or nap. We snack a bit there and go back to the parks for dinner, more rides, parades, and fireworks. If you don’t already have dinner reservations, you can use the app or just hit another quick-service restaurant, which is what we normally do.

We all love a good Disney treat so make time to get one (or many!) of those.  My kids love the ice cream bars and sandwiches and I go crazy for a Dole Whip.  I’m not too particular on when we get treats.  Sometimes we get them in the afternoon before we head back to the hotel, but we pretty much always have something around time for fireworks.

Disney drinks can take up a good portion of money we worked hard to save, so we are smart about not buying sodas and bottled waters all day long.  We go to Disney in June and it is hot, so I take some empty water bottles (you can find cute Disney ones at WalMart) and fill them up at water fountains.  You can also get free ice water pretty much anywhere they serve food.

Breakfast at the Polynesian
Lunch at Akershus, Epcot


Character meals really deserve their own post so I will just say this: they are expensive, but worth it if you want your kids to have some character time.  Also, the food is good.  You should plan to do at least one if your kids are little.

4. Dress Accordingly


I always applaud people when I see their cute photos and they are wearing nice clothing at Disney.  I’m not sure how they do it.  Again, we go in June and it can be pretty steamy, especially after the afternoon rain showers.  I’m positive you will not catch me in anything with a button or zipper or made out of some non-breathable material.  If I’m at a Disney park during the day, I have on a t-shirt or tank top and athletic shorts.  If you ride Splash Mountain in the morning and have to spend the rest of your day in wet denim, you will not be happy.  Trust me on this.  Get a cute Disney tee and break out your black shorts.  You will be comfortable and still cute.  Promise.

Also, wear tennis shoes.  You will walk so much at Disney.  I tried to wear flip flops once and was mad at myself about halfway through the day.  The kids wear tennis shoes also, unless we are just back for fireworks and are leaving again.

If you MUST wear cute clothing, maybe put those on after a mid-day break.  That is kind of my plan for this year.  I’d like to get some nice pics where my hair isn’t in a messy bun.  We’ll see if that happens…

5. All of the extras

Fireworks and other nighttime shows

At the evening shows, Disney sells all sorts of fun glow-in-the-dark items.  I’m pretty sure I’ve bought a few of these overpriced things in the past.  One year, we saw a smart family pull out their bag of dollar store glow sticks and I watched their kids happily showing off the things that cost them $19 less than what we had.  Guess what.  We take the dollar store glow sticks now.  Haha.  I hit up Target a few weeks ago and got some glow necklaces and bracelets for my kids and nephews.  My kids have never felt like they had something less than the kids who have the expensive glow toys.  Plus, there are always kids around us who don’t have the items either and it gives my littles the opportunity to share because we always have extra.


We try to be really practical when it comes to souvenirs.  I want my kids to have something to help them remember the experience, but I don’t like them asking for everything they see.  When my oldest was really little, we started them on a souvenir budget.  They take some of their own money, any money grandparents have given them, and a little from us (we save change all year, take it to the bank, and split it into thirds) and that is their souvenir money for the entire trip (including the beach part that comes after Disney).  This eliminates so many problems for us.  If they ask for something, I tell them they have to pay for it.  Enough said.  Sometimes they want a larger item (like the build-a-dinosaur at the T-Rex restaurant), but mostly they just want a cup or some little figurine.  Whatever is left at the end of the trip is theirs to keep.  If you are looking for cheap Disney items, there is a WalMart close to the Disney properties that has aisles and aisles of things at bargain prices.  We always hit it up before we head out of Orlando to get gift items for friends back in Oklahoma.


While at Disney, I’ll use my cellphone to take most of our pictures and turn them into a photobook when we return.  Disney does offer Photopass which means they’ll scan your MagicBand (or park ticket) and take photos throughout the day.  You can see these photos on your account on the Disney website and purchase the ones you want OR you can buy MemoryMaker ($169 for advance purchase, $199 for immediate use).  MemoryMaker allows you to purchase all of your digital images for one price.  The Disney photographers have great locations at which you can stop and take your pics, but you also get ride pictures and videos.  After you get off of the “big” rides (Splash Mountain, Space Mountain, etc), you will go to where they post the pictures.  When you see your family, scan your MagicBand and those photos will link to your account.  We bought this service on our last trip and were really pleased with our pictures.

They even add little extras (see Olaf above) and you get some stock photos of characters and rides.  You can also link MemoryMaker to the accounts of your other family members, meaning you can SHARE photos.  We split the cost among three families so it seemed well worth the $169 to have good, fun photos.  Because we are only doing one Disney park this year (we are venturing out to Universal), we aren’t going to purchase MemoryMaker.  However, I highly recommend it for people who are doing multiple days at parks and/or have friends or family who can split the cost.


If you are traveling from far and don’t want to hassle with bringing a stroller, Disney does offer stroller rental for like $15 or $20 a day.  We rented a stroller once, but found that a cheap umbrella stroller worked just as well for us.  If you are doing five days of parks, that is almost $100 just for stroller rental.


Stroller fan for the win



Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique 

This boutique will transform your child into a beautiful princess or a heroic knight, with packages for the girls starting at around $65.  Yikes.  I couldn’t do it.  Unless this is an experience you just can’t pass up, pack your own princess dress, put your girl’s hair in a bun, and put some spray glitter on her.  She won’t even know what she is missing.

Want to know what the experts say?

Before heading to Disney each year, I consult some real experts for updates or reminders about certain parks.  My favorite website is WDW Prep School.  It’s the best, but can be overwhelming because there is so much information.  Take in a bit at a time and you will learn so much while planning your vacation.

I also consult books.  I use this one, but there are many on the market.  You can purchase from Amazon or find one at your local library in the travel section.

Anything I’m missing?  Post in comments and I’ll add to my Disney follow-up.